I am not an advice column. I am not an expert in human behavior. I am simply a guy who has traveled the world, seen lots of history, made plenty of mistakes, been hurt by those I thought would only help, lived with the poor, and dined with the rich. I am simply a guy with a new found happiness, a new found perspective. Here is the point of view from my adventurous life.
Over the course of this blog, I have always tried to give my point of view from my perspective in life and offer you the opportunity to evaluate, grow, get motivated, make changes to your own life, and/or simply agree with it. Recently, while traveling alone for my longest period to date, I have come to terms with the adventures life has given me and the avenues it is allowing me to take in the future. I have friends, ex-girlfriends, family members, and random strangers to all thank for helping me understand, avoid, and gather perspective from. All based on the mistakes they have made, are making, or avoid making. Death is real and if things happened to you tomorrow, preventing you from doing what your doing now, would you have changed the way you were living your life? I did and here are my new founding’s…
It was recently on my first trip with other Cancer Survivors/Future Cancer Survivors, that all of this was reinforced. While traveling through New Zealand, filming more adventures and my new TV series, I have been trying to raise awareness for an organization called, CanTeen. CanTeen helps Teens faced with Cancer, continue to grow, gain new perspectives, and allow others to help them during the difficult process. Having searched for the past 2 years for the right organization to benefit, I finally found it. You see, I have yet to really talk among others directly effected by Cancer and how I can relate to them. Even more so, I have yet to really volunteer my time for others. I spent so much time before I had cancer worrying about my self and materialistic things, that I lost track of what true happiness was about. I always said that, ’One Day’ I will give back. Just never did. If you are comfortable with your life but feel unsatisfied, perhaps this next part is for you.
Having traveled to over 40 countries the past 2 years, I feel like I have a decent grip on peoples perspectives and the world that surrounds them. The one question I get asked a lot is, ‘what is the best advice you can give to those not satisfied with what life is offering them.’ The answer from me is always the same. ‘If you can learn to appreciate the little things in life and explain your way of life truthfully, then your taking advantage of every moment.’
I realize this is very deep but here is why it works for me. In order to appreciate the little things in life, you have to appreciate the things most people take for granted. Having traveled the world, I have realized there are so many things to appreciate in the world for free, than to worry about making so much money. My life before Cancer was about making money. Now, its about seeing more things in life to appreciate what little money is required. Which brings me to being truthful about the way I choose to live life and make a living at it. The day I stop focusing on how much I could get, money or possession, the better I found myself associating with things and people who allowed me to see and appreciate just that. One came with the other as I couldn’t see it without either. If I thought about everything that ever made me argue, fight, or upset, it usually was associated with something or someone, associated with decisions they made revolving around immoral revenue, untrustworthy relationships, or just overall lack of happiness with who they are. That’s my two cents and here is how it was recently reinforced….
Two weeks ago, I invited some of these teens to join me on one of America’s Cup boats in Auckland, New Zealand to go sailing. It was here my friends, that out of all the adventures I have done to date, this one was the most rewarding. Giving others an opportunity to do something they have never done, was the ultimate high. Similar to the excitement of jumping out of a plane or running with the bulls, giving back was no different. Seeing the look of happiness on their faces was more than I could ever get from one of my own adventures.
I look back at my life before I got hit with Cancer and the way I chose to live it. I would just go through my daily routine, making money, going out with friends, saying ‘one day,’ I will be ready for this or that. ‘One day,’ when I have x amount of money I will move here. ‘One day,’ when I meet one person, I will be happy ever after. ‘One day,’ when I am older, I will be ready to settle down.
Well for me, that ‘one day’ was then, yesterday, and today. That ‘one day,’ allowed me to realize that it doesn’t have to be ‘one day’. ‘One Day’ becomes my ‘Every Day’ now, and if I died tomorrow, I would feel as if it was full of meaningful days and life.
If you want more information on the CanTeen you can simply keep following my journey with them on this blog or visit them here, www.canteen.co.nz
Having done so many adventures, my most rewarding adventure to date, was that of life. If your looking for the same, try asking yourself what if you decided to make the change today? I could then tell you, your adventures of life, will begin too….
Thanks for allowing me to find my adventures in life!






















